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I am gonna reply back to karthick’s(my friend) comments in the blog below. Read that one
>This is an age old topic and there has been endless discussions already done on this.

Yeah……its an age old topic…the problem is “the problem still exists without a perennial solution”


>nee etho figure a manasula vechu, avala correct panrathukaka intha blog ezhudhina mathiri irukku! ;-)

Good one…..you made me laugh here……..machi…ippadiyellam correct panratha iruntha karthi innum single ah suthikittu irukka mattan da……….

>Well, u have thoroughly misinterpreted Gandhi's statement. U like it or not, women are the weaker sex w.r.to sex! No girl rapes a man at the mid of the night. So, men have to fear only for their money when walking alone in the night! But gals have to care for their body too..(though nowadays, boys also face the problem!;-) ) Thats what Gandhi meant and I don see any male dominance there.... Its just the care for the female counterpart!

I didn’t say that a girl rapes a man or something like that…..I say that the world is surrounded by male population that smoothly devices the laws for the safety of woman…….I say that we create rules for woman….I say that we dominate them…….I say…Let them create their rules…..


>Do you believe a child can get the same love and affection from a caretaker that he/she would get from a mother? A child needs a mother dude..she is the greatest thing a person could get and the mother needs TIME to spend with her children. It is next to impossible to spend time with children when she leaves to office morning at 8 and returns at night 9 o clock.. imagine how much tired will she be doing so much of mental work and do u still think, she will feel like hitting the sack or spend some affectionate time with her children...by the time, probably they are already off to bed? so, r u happy with the child growing up without the love and affection of the greatest human being on earth?

A child needs a mother….I like that one……I accept that….But the child needs a father too equally……I am saying that both should share the responsibilities……We should understand one thing……No woman dreams of becoming a mother……Just let the woman pursue her dreams…Just because you want your child to grow up well, you want her to be the caretaker…pretty rough term ah…….A child needs mother’s caring affection…….But don’t make her sacrifice her ambition…Nobody is created to live for some one else……

>And I seriously do not think any guy treats his wife as a slave or look upon any female in that sense... probably a section of the society...yes!and that is due to lack of awareness and the way they are brougt up! They do not grow up seeing gals playing tennis and holding the mike. They grow up seeing women in the kitchen..

Slave doesn’t mean tying someone to the chains and asking them to work incessantly……Why don’t you call this as a polished slavery…..face the truth dude…will you ever sacrifice your life for your children….


>Take a survey among gals and ask them how many of them would be willing to marry a man who earns less than them?! I am sure the count would be less than 10 percent. Women love to be beaten sometimes by the counterparts... in some things..and men love to be beaten by their counterparts in some things... thats the way we have been living life so far and both the clans seem to enjoy it! Let it stay like that..don meddle with them unnecessarily..

Great statement da….This is something I missed out……A girl’s attitude depends upon how she is brought up…if u bring up a girl saying that your life’s dream should be to become a mother and house wife, she end’s up being beaten by counterparts…..Bring up a girl in the way you were brought up……Say to her that she has to chase her dreams and that she has to stand alone…….She will never like being beaten…..You said that “you would never like to beaten by a woman”…….Vice versa will be true….